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TALKING RESPITE: With the Respite Worker or Agency

What to discuss before someone starts working at home with your loved one

BY:FRAN SILVERMAN

When hiring an aide from an agency or using volunteers from a community group, it is important to become familiar with the staff supervisor or group director. 

 

Caregivers should ask in-home workers...

 

Do you have any limits as regards   what care you will provide?

 

Are there personal issues that may interrupt the respite care?

 

Do you have any physical restrictions that may prevent you from carrying out any specific care?

 

ALSO, go over the daily care instructions. Topics to discuss include:

 

When and how often you want to be updated on your loved one's status while you're away

 

Contact information, including how you want to be contacted—e-mail? cell phone?—with the appropriate addresses and numbers

 

Emergency contacts, in case you are not reachable

 

Foods to serve and feeding schedule

 

Medications to provide and on what schedule

 

Forms of entertainment your loved one enjoys

 

Areas of need, such as rising from a chair or bed, toileting, dressing, bathing

 

Guests who might pay a visit