The average person with diabetes takes nine medications a day, and not always happily. When someone resists taking necessary pills or injections, it's usually because of the inconvenience or side effects, says Richard R. Rubin, PhD, CDE, president, healthcare and education, American Diabetes Association.

If this happens, remember that "the harder you push, the more likely they are to resist," Dr. Rubin says. Instead, encourage the person you care for to discuss what is so bothersome about the medications. Ask how you can make things better.

If the issue is confusion about the timing, consider using a timer or a pill box compartmentalized by time and day. Or suggest that the two of you talk with the doctor about simplifying the medication regimen.

Nasty side effects the problem? Again, the doctor might recommend an alternative. "Diabetes treatment is improving every day," says Dr. Rubin.

Someone new to taking insulin shots might feel disheartened by this change in medication or fear taking injections in public. In many cases, exploring the problem can reveal a solution.

Talking about your own feelings might also give you some leverage. To a family member, you might say, "I love you and I want you around for a long time. It scares me when you won't do what the doctor says."

As with all issues concerning caregiving and diabetes, if you feel you need support, consider joining a support group or exploring support options online. Many people find the American Diabetes Association's bulletin boards helpful, says Dr. Rubin.

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